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新晉父母 為性事兒還能做什么

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　生完孩子休整好，性事兒于是被提上日程。很多新手爸媽深陷照顧新生寶寶的各種忙亂中，對(duì)于性可謂是有苦難言，經(jīng)常聽(tīng)到身邊的父母叫苦，心有余而時(shí)間不足。初次為人父母，難道夫妻生活從此就靠邊站了。一起來(lái)看看，你們還能做些什么來(lái)改善這種現(xiàn)狀呢?
 

一、現(xiàn)狀，產(chǎn)后性事難

　　都說(shuō)生孩子之前風(fēng)花雪月，你儂我儂，有了孩子之后，手忙腳亂夫妻生活全不見(jiàn)。身邊的媽媽們都曾經(jīng)有過(guò)這樣的感覺(jué)。且來(lái)聽(tīng)聽(tīng)這些媽媽們都怎么說(shuō)。
 
　　次數(shù)少
 
　　小魚(yú)蛋媽咪：次數(shù)變少有木有?帶娃讓我日夜顛倒倒頭就睡哪里還有心思和時(shí)間培養(yǎng)感覺(jué)，找情調(diào)，基本是十天半個(gè)月能有一次算不錯(cuò)了，經(jīng)常是一個(gè)月都木有一次啊。
 
　　沒(méi)高潮
 
　　灰色心情：再也找不到昔日的感覺(jué)了，所謂高潮這玩意兒從此就成了字典里的詞，到底問(wèn)題出在哪里我也不知道。
 
　　匆匆完事
 
　　晴天小雨兒：產(chǎn)后我木有上環(huán)，堅(jiān)決拒絕在身體里植入那么個(gè)玩意兒，都是他帶套，每次都是匆匆完事兒，咱倆都像交作業(yè)一樣，其實(shí)也想改善可不知從何下手。
 
　　……
 
　　不僅僅只是這幾位媽咪的代表性發(fā)言，很多夫妻都會(huì)遇到這個(gè)問(wèn)題。那么，新手爸媽們?yōu)榇诉€可以做些什么呢?
 

二、提高性趣，新晉媽咪能做什么

　　為了產(chǎn)后的性福生活，媽咪們可以做的其實(shí)有很多，與其埋怨，不如從自身改變，一起來(lái)看看，你還可以做點(diǎn)什么呢？
 
 
　　主動(dòng)出擊
 
　　據(jù)調(diào)查：在妻子產(chǎn)后的第一次性生活中，男性主動(dòng)的比例占63.6%，也有12.8%的女性會(huì)主動(dòng)要求丈夫開(kāi)始第一次性生活，選擇和丈夫一同進(jìn)入角色的占23.6%。這樣看來(lái)，媽媽們普遍性趣不高，主要是看孩子累的好吧!
 
　　其實(shí)你也可以主動(dòng)出擊，如果身心俱累，不妨跟丈夫說(shuō)：親愛(ài)的，咱們多久沒(méi)有‘嗯哼’了呀，不如……讓丈夫早點(diǎn)有心理準(zhǔn)備，多幫幫你看孩子。
 
　　暫時(shí)別提孩子
 
　　當(dāng)了媽媽之后，孩子占據(jù)了你的所有時(shí)間和空間，有時(shí)間你需要給自己留一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)空間，在某個(gè)晚上，讓孩子和奶奶或可以幫忙照看孩子的家人睡，自己和老公享受一下難得的二人時(shí)光。
 
　　心中別再牽掛你的寶貝，就讓自己在這一刻做一個(gè)狠心的媽媽?zhuān)瓦@么短的時(shí)間，孩子有老人照看，不會(huì)有啥問(wèn)題。
 
　　調(diào)動(dòng)你的情緒
 
　　當(dāng)你家里這個(gè)小“第三者”脫去“隱身衣”，真真實(shí)實(shí)地躺在你旁邊的時(shí)候，你總會(huì)感覺(jué)太累了，根本沒(méi)有精力來(lái)完成性生活——有時(shí)間寧愿睡覺(jué)，而不是嘿咻嘿咻。
 
　　而且經(jīng)常是丈夫有了沖動(dòng)，你卻沒(méi)有感覺(jué)，讓彼此都失望。怎么辦，你可以嘗試性幻想，嘗試看看動(dòng)作片，總之是用那些能調(diào)動(dòng)你情緒和沖動(dòng)的方法，來(lái)幫助自己找感覺(jué)。
 

三、和諧性事，新晉老爸能做什么

　　別以為老爸就不需要為此做出努力，產(chǎn)后的女人需要恢復(fù)，更需要爸爸們理解和支持，一起來(lái)看看，為了性福大計(jì)爸爸還能做些什么？
 
　　等待，給妻子時(shí)間
 
　　別纏著妻子要她進(jìn)行性生活。不管你覺(jué)得自己多么有權(quán)利，死纏爛打是最讓人煩的，它會(huì)讓你之前的努力全部白費(fèi)。
 
　　妻子在產(chǎn)后對(duì)性生活喪失興趣是很正常的，如果她在給寶寶喂奶，她可能會(huì)覺(jué)得身體上的付出已經(jīng)夠多的了。不過(guò)，盡管如此，她仍會(huì)愿意過(guò)性生活，只是那需要多一點(diǎn)時(shí)間。
 
　　前戲，多找點(diǎn)感覺(jué)
 
　　考慮把前戲時(shí)間提前吧，比如你可以從吃早飯時(shí)就著手為性生活做準(zhǔn)備。帶你妻子去商場(chǎng)買(mǎi)件讓她更有女性味(而不是母性味)的東西，不過(guò)，我并不是讓你買(mǎi)內(nèi)衣啊，因?yàn)閮?nèi)衣會(huì)讓她覺(jué)得你在逼她，沒(méi)準(zhǔn)會(huì)讓她立馬拒絕你。
 
　　在她溫柔動(dòng)人的時(shí)候，要多贊美她。你上班后要記得給她發(fā)一條親昵的短信，晚上回家?guī)退藕孟丛杷o她倒一杯紅酒?？傊?，努力去做所有能讓她感動(dòng)的事情。
 
　　克制，多一點(diǎn)愛(ài)撫
 
　　克制自己的欲望，先愛(ài)撫她。撫摸她身體的各個(gè)部位，但不要撫摸她的乳房和會(huì)陰，注意你撫摸她的時(shí)間至少要有10分鐘。你可以嘗試用不同的手法撫摸她，溫柔地、有力地、或者只是用你的指尖來(lái)拂過(guò)她的皮膚。
 
　　你要幫助她真正放松下來(lái)，把她的愛(ài)欲真正點(diǎn)燃。你可以看一下表，確保你愛(ài)撫她的時(shí)間的確持續(xù)了10分鐘。

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