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14歲女孩3次懷孕 兒童性教育該如何進行？(2)

出處：媽媽育兒網(wǎng)日期：2015-09-02 10:55:31編輯：Chen

7月的一天，事情再次發(fā)生了逆轉(zhuǎn)

思思與夏建突然“鬧掰了”，思思來到派出所，稱夏建性侵過她，肚子里的孩子是夏建的。

報警后，李鼎律師整理了多份思思的談話材料交給警方。警方收到材料當即抓捕了夏建。

可是，思思和她的媽媽在關(guān)鍵問題上產(chǎn)生“分歧”。思思說孩子是夏建的，而思思的媽媽卻堅稱，思思肚子里的孩子是北京的一個手機店老板的。

因為母女在關(guān)鍵細節(jié)上的不一致，警方只好釋放了夏建。由于思思的預產(chǎn)期在9月，只好等孩子生下來之后，再做親子鑒定。

“思思告訴過我，夏建與她經(jīng)常發(fā)生性關(guān)系，每次發(fā)生之后，都非常注意銷毀證據(jù)，夏建把用過的紙巾都會扔到窗戶外面。”社工李梓琨說，這個細節(jié)“思思跟我說過很多次”。雖然思思說話經(jīng)常反復，但是李梓琨在不同時間段聽到思思提及這一細節(jié)。不過，夏建一直對媒體否認這一點。

思思為何小小年紀在短短時間內(nèi)多次懷孕？就此記者多次試圖聯(lián)系思思父母，但一直聯(lián)系沒有聯(lián)系上。“思思多次懷孕，原因就在于她長期缺乏愛，而這種愛她從父母那里得不到。”社工李梓琨分析，“思思分不清愛與性，她有時候認為愛就是性，而她父母也管不了她，所以才釀成了這樣的悲劇”。

中國青年報記者了解到，其實，像思思這樣遭遇不幸的孩子還有很多。

根據(jù)《2014年兒童防性侵教育及性侵兒童案件統(tǒng)計報告》顯示，2014年1月1日至12月31日，被媒體曝光的案件高達503起，平均0.73天就曝光1起，也就是每天曝光1.38起，是2013年同比的4.06倍。

華中師范大學性學家彭曉輝表示：“很多孩子的家長知道孩子被性侵后選擇私了，還有很多家長壓根兒就不知道孩子的遭遇。”

“壞老師”性侵為何總是肆無忌憚

2011年，13歲的男孩王樂(化名)小升初進入了河北省宣化一中136實驗班——這是當時該校最好的班級。王樂的父母表示，當時他們對孩子的未來抱有極大的希望，期待他能考上大學，以改變這個并不寬裕家庭的命運。

然而，事與愿違。進入初中之后，王樂的成績一直下滑，各門功課都不好，無奈只能重讀初一的課程。孩子的父母只是覺得孩子學習不上心，并沒有多想。直到2014年4月26日，孩子突然從學校帶著東西回家，目光遲鈍，精神出現(xiàn)了異常。

“當時把我們嚇壞了。”王樂父親說，第二天就帶著孩子到張家口某醫(yī)院檢查，確診為抑郁癥。在心理治療師的干預之下，王樂才說出自己被老師性侵的經(jīng)歷。

原來，王樂進入宣化一中之后，主管軍訓的政教處老師李劍，以違紀為由，晚上將王樂從學校帶到自己的住所。第一次，李劍不僅給王樂看一些不堪入目的視頻，而且還要求王樂模仿這些動作。

王樂的父母選擇了報案

宣化縣人民檢察院對李劍提出了指控：被告人李劍自2013年9月至2014年3月期間，以發(fā)現(xiàn)被害人在校有違紀為由，多次將被害人4名學生帶至家中，對被害人實施非法拘禁并對他們錄像拍照。

“李劍就以此要挾孩子，要孩子簽訂保密協(xié)議，并且威脅孩子說，如果膽敢說出去，他就將視頻和照片發(fā)到網(wǎng)上，并且威脅要弄死我們?nèi)摇?rdquo;王樂父親說，“王樂是個挺乖的孩子，他根本不敢反抗”。

王樂的父母事后回憶，在孩子遭遇性侵期間，有“好心”的老師曾提醒他們，王樂最近與李劍走得很近，但是在法院調(diào)查時，沒有老師站出來幫助王樂。李劍的行為敗露后，在法院調(diào)查的過程中，也沒有學生敢出來作證。

法院一審判決，不支持原告提出的賠償精神損害賠償金的訴訟請求。“關(guān)于附帶民事訴訟原告人要求賠償后續(xù)治療費的訴訟請求，因該筆費用并未實際發(fā)生且原告所提交的證據(jù)不能清楚證實后續(xù)治療費用具體數(shù)額，故對此訴訟請求不予支持”。最終，李劍被判處有期徒刑兩年10個月，賠償醫(yī)療費、住宿費、交通費共計13萬余元。

但是，王樂的父母對關(guān)注此事的社工表示，目前還沒有拿到李劍的任何賠償金。性侵已經(jīng)對王樂造成心理創(chuàng)傷，后續(xù)依然需要進行長期的心理治療。

《2014年兒童防性侵教育及性侵兒童案件統(tǒng)計報告》顯示，在2014年公開報道的性侵兒童案例中，熟人犯罪有442起(公開報道未提及雙方關(guān)系的未統(tǒng)計在內(nèi))，熟人性侵兒童案占87.87%。這些熟人包括教師、鄰居、親戚、同村人等。在案件發(fā)生前就與未成年人彼此認識的施害者，更容易接近受害者，再憑借其體力上的優(yōu)勢和特殊身份，或者憑借其地位，使得侵害容易得手。

“在一些個案中，孩子在遭遇性侵的時候，很多周圍的人都知道，但是卻不愿意多管閑事。實際上，這不僅是社會冷漠的表現(xiàn)之一，也是我們保護機制缺失的表現(xiàn)，很多家庭和學校都沒有這方面的保護意識。”兒童希望救助基金會主任張雯說。

有專家表示，在我國現(xiàn)有的教育體系中，家長對學校的信任是絕對的。我們經(jīng)?？梢月牭郊议L對孩子說，“在學校里面要聽老師的話”。這種思維的慣性，老師與孩子之間的地位失衡，恰恰給予性侵者屢次作案的機會。當孩子遭遇“老師”性侵時，孩子缺乏保護自己權(quán)利的勇氣。

家長看到自己的孩子學習成績下降，孩子變得郁郁寡歡，每當提到老師孩子都罵……出現(xiàn)類似的現(xiàn)象，應(yīng)該引起家長的警惕，這些很可能或許是孩子遭遇性侵的先兆。

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